Wednesday, March 16, 2011

MAN COURT IS IN SESSION; ALL RISE: TODAY'S LESSON IS TAKEN FROM MARY J. BLIGE'S SONG FROM THE MOVIE WAITING TO EXHALE SNDTRK "NO, I'M NOT GONNA CRY, I'M NOT GONNA SHED A TEAR"

"Hello Judge Limit, I am so embarrassed to be sending this in but I have looked deep within and have weighed my options and I think it’s time for me to go now. My husband and I will be celebrating our 2nd anniversary this year but have been together for almost 4 years now. We have been through it, I must say but we’ve managed to still stay together and made a life for ourselves and the kids – a pretty decent one too. I know every couple must have their ups and downs but this incident feels like the last straw and I am at the point no where – I just want to move on and start fresh. We had huge argument couple days ago, he said some hateful things, I said some pretty hateful things as well – some of which I am not proud of. During this particular argument, the man SPIT pon me!! I had our little son in my hands too when he did it. Words cannot explain the hurt, disgust and embarrassment I felt and still feeling. I just walk out of the house. Since then, I have moved into our guestroom and I haven’t said a word to him. I feel like this is the lowest form of disrespect a betta if him did kick me dung! I want out of this relationship NOW!!!"


15 comments:

  1. HOW MUCH UNU WAN BET SAY DIS IR NOT UR FIRST TIME TRYING TO LEAVE?? HOW DEM SAY IT AGAIN, YOU AGO TRY LEAVE 5 TIMES BEFORE YOU ACTUALLY GO?? KMFT

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  2. YO, ANYBODY SPIT PON ME ENUH...CHO ME NOT EVN WAN TALK ENUH

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  3. @ JUDGE, YU A REBEL LIKE TONY, PRISON WUDNT MISS YU EEE.
    MI TINK YU SUPPOSE TO UPHOLD DI LAW NOT ABUSE THE LAW ABIDERS

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  4. NO ENUH SEC, ME ANO DEM TYPE A JUDGE DEY...NO VIOLATIONS ROUN ERE!!

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  5. he have no respect for u but u shouldnt take that if it was me right now he would be nursing some stab limit u know how we role a alley a dis

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  6. ALLEY, YUH NAH FI TELL ME!! DI MAN A LUUUUUUUUUUUUU BIG TIME!

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  7. That's so disrespectful. I feel so hurt for her, what makes it hurt most is the fact that the baby was there and he saw this type of behavior. What kind of example is he displaying to his child? That hurt me. Sorry my dear. I would probably do the same thing that you're thinking about doing. Next time he might escalate to beating on you and the kids. Where does it end the the respect begins. You could also try counseling for both of you.

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  8. really now my girl a which part u come from there is a LIMIT to certain thing and this is one of dem chop out him dutty rass pickney fadda r not him brite all him now u just pay a crackhead fe f**k him up no joke

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  9. @CHRISSY DOH?? HIM TOO BRIGHT MAN!

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  10. next time she might fat up your eye,

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  11. @QUEFA, DISRESPECTFUL IS NOT EVEN THE WORD ME WAN USE FI HIM, A ME FI TELL YUH!!

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  12. Its beyond disrspectful!!!!! I got the bat, someone chose the alley. Sorry Judge, but this little boy needs an ol skool style beating from a woman. The lil man shouldn't have seen such behaviour. I hope he's young enough to forget that incident! Stand strong mi fren, man dem can't get over on us in the long run!!

    ~Splifflady~

    PS Judge, I am signing anoynmously...how do I signwith my name? Not sure of my url

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  13. I agree with Quefa 100%

    ~Splifflady~

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  14. @Splifflady, u can use a google or twitter account to sign on here but I've also linked back the blog to my fb page - so I will be here and there!!

    BUT DI DUTTY MAN BRITE BADDDDDDDD!!

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  15. MORNING ONE AND ALL,
    HIM WAY PASS BRITE HIM A HALF MAN HALF GAL, FI A SPIT. BUT MI BCUZ SOME GAL WANT DI LIFE OVA NITE AND NO WANT STRUGGLE WID A MAN FI MEK IT. HIM NEVA RATE YU FROM MORNING OR HIM DO SOME MINOR TINGS AN YU MEK IT SLIDE SO HIM TAKE THAT BIG STEP.
    *** MI HOPE NONE NO GO INNA YU MOUTH****
    NOT EVEN MEK FI FCK OR DI PICNEY HOLD YU TO HIM BUY A CLARO AND MOVE AN DEN YU GO DIGI BIGGA BADDA,, AND LEFT HIM WID HIM SOUR LIME..
    AND WHEN HIM CALL YU VIRIZON WIRELESS JUS SAY "FCK OFF AN LEAVE MI ALONE,,FI GOOOOD"
    LOL LOL LMAO.

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