"Good Day Judge Limit. Good day Man Courters. My husband and I are very prominent members in the (edited) church. We attend every Sunday, we volunteer and I must say that we do give pretty decent offerings too. Recently, the church appointed this very young deacon, I say young because he’s younger than my husband, and he’s about 35. Me and him are very chatty and flirtatious. One Sunday while at church, we were in the Pastor’s office for a meeting with the Pastor. After the meeting, me an him stayed behind an a talk and it just happen so. Out of the blue, a me dat pon top a him inna di coach, some positions wey me an my husband neva do fi years now. Me shame, shame, shame so till!! From it happen, I never set foot back inna di church, me sick every Sunday now and every church gatherings me have something else to do. I need some advise on how to proceed from here. Thanks. P.S. I am not older than him either so I am not no cougar. Thanks again."