Good morning Mancourters and Judge Limit,
Let me start off by saying that I LOVE my husband!! Yes him piss me off sometimes but what relationship don’t have ups and downs? Nothing major tho. Anyways, I am noticing recently that I am not in the mood to have sex with him. I am not turned on, I HATE it when he comes next to me in bed because all he wants to do is have sex. He gets mad and I would force myself to do it but it feels like a chore. He complains that I never want to have sex anymore and that maybe me have a nex man out dey doing it with so when I come home I have no time for him. The truth is, he is sooo good to me I could never bring a next man in our relationship. Yes, my life has gotten a lot busier, promotion at work etc, but I always come home and make dinner and take care of the family. After homework and dinner I just want to shower and lay in my bed, watch some t.v till me fall asleep. But of late, when he comes to bed with me, his idea of cuddling is his hands on my front a rub it down, me no like dat! Me constantly a tell him. As him come next to me is a cock stand like me a some sex symbol. Its very constant his need ofr sex an he gets angry when I turn him down. I am just not in the mood! Everything else is fine with us but the sex part right now is a killer for me and me tell him say me no wan no fuck and is like him cyan understand that. Now he is up at all hours of the morning a kmt an slam slam di door dem, him jus irritable. In the venings, when I get home, him disappear somewhere in the house, I call him for supper, him come like a puppy den gone again. I don’t mind cuz I get to spend time with the kids and focus but as soon as upstairs gets quiet (when him know say the kids gone to bed) me cringe just hearing the footsteps coming up di stairs. What me fi do??